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Àü°³ Beginning
- ºÎ¸£±â Calling Them
- ¾È¾ÆÁÖ±â Giving Them a Hug
- ¾ÉÈ÷±â Making Them Sit
- ´«³ôÀÌ ¸ÂÃß±â Matching Their Eye Level

¸¶À½ ´Þ·¡±â Comforting a Child
- °¨Á¤ ´Þ·¡±â Comforting Them
- »óȲ ÀÌÇØÇϱâ Understanding Their Behavior
- ´Ùµ¶À̱â Consoling Them
- °Ý·ÁÇϱâ Encouraging Them

»óȲ µé¾îÁÖ±â Hearing Them Out

±³À°Çϱâ Teaching Right from Wrong
- Ä£±¸ °ü°è Interacting with Peers
- Ƽºñ º¼ ¶§ When Watching TV
- ¼Õ°¡¶ô »¡ ¶§ When Sucking on Fingers
- ¸øÇÏ°Ú´Ù°í ¶¼¾µ ¶§ When Throwing a Tantrum
- Áý¿¡ ¾È µé¾î°¡·Á ÇÒ ¶§ When Refusing to Go Back Home
- °è¼Ó ³î°í ½Í¾î ÇÒ ¶§ When a Child Wants to Continue to Play
- ¹«·ÊÇÏ°Ô ÇൿÇÒ ¶§ When a Child is Being Disrespectful

¾ÆÀÌÀÇ »ý°¢ ¹¯±â Asking for Their Thoughts / Opinions

¾ö¸¶ ¸¶À½ Ç¥ÇöÇϱâ Expressing Mom¡¯s Feelings
- ¾çÇØ ±¸Çϱâ Seeking understanding

Á¦ 3ÀÇ ´ë¾È Á¦½ÃÇϱâ A Third Alternative

ĪÂùÇϱâ Giving Compliments

°¨Á¤ Á¶ÀýÀÇ ÇÑ°è Setting Limits

 


 

 



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Àü°³ Beginning

- ºÎ¸£±â Calling Them

À̾߱⠳ª´©°Ô °¡±îÀÌ ¿Íº¸·Å

¡°Come this way so we can talk.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

Come and talk to me.

Come this way so we can talk.

Come closer so that we can have a talk.


- ¾ÉÈ÷±â Making Them Sit

À̸® ¿Í¼­ ¾É¾Æº¸·Å

¡°Come this way and have a seat over here.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

(+ Please)

Sit here.

Be seated.

Sit over here.

Sit down here.

Come sit over here.


¸¶À½ ´Þ·¡±â Comforting a Child

- °¨Á¤ ´Þ·¡±â Comforting Them

¿ïÁö ¸¶. ±¦Âú¾Æ

¡°There¡¯s no need to cry. It¡¯s going to be all right.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

Don¡¯t cry.

You don¡¯t have to cry.

You don¡¯t need to cry.

There¡¯s no need to cry.

Stop crying and calm down.


´«¹° ¸ØÃß°í Â¥Áõ ³»Áö ¾Ê°í À̾߱âÇØÁÖ¸é ¾ö¸¶°¡ ³× À̾߱⸦ ´õ Àß ÀÌÇØÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ü´Ù

¡°I need you to stop throwing a fit and take to me. That way, I can understand you better.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

I can¡¯t understand you unless you stop crying.

Unless you stop crying and take to me, I can¡¯t understand you.

I need you to stop crying so I can understand you better.


- »óȲ ÀÌÇØÇϱâ Understanding Their Behavior

±×·¡¼­ ¿ï¾ú±¸³ª

³î¶ó¼­ ¿ï¾ú±¸³ª

¡°I see why you cried.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

It made you cry.

You cried because of it.


*ÀÌ·¸°Ôµµ Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

Now I see why you cried.


¾ö¸¶°¡ ³× ¸¶À½À» ¸ô¶óÁ༭ ¼Ó»óÇß±¸³ª

¡°You felt upset as I didn¡¯t read your mind¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

You were sad as I didn¡¯t understand you.


- ´Ùµ¶À̱â Consoling Them

±¦ÂúÀ» °Å¾ß

¡°You are going to be okay.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

Everything will be fine.

You are going to be Fine.


- °Ý·ÁÇϱâ Encouraging Them

ÁÁÀº ½Ãµµ¿´¾î

¡°Your effort counts.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

It was a good attempt.

It was very nice try.

You tried and that¡¯s what matters.


ÀßÇÏ´Â °Íº¸´Ù ÃÖ¼±À» ´ÙÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ ´õ Áß¿äÇÏ´Ü´Ù

¡°Doing your best is more important than being the best.¡±


´Ù½Ã Çغ¸·Å

´Ù½Ã ÇÏ¸é µÅ

¡°You can do it over again.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

You can just do it over.

You can always try again.


»óȲ µé¾îÁÖ±â Hearing Them Out

¹«½¼ ÀÏ ÀÖ¾ú´Ï?

¡°Did something happen?¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

What happened?

Can you tell me what happened?

Did anything happen?


¾ö¸¶ÇÑÅ× À̾߱âÇØÁÖ°Ú´Ï?

¡°Could you tell mommy?¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

Can you tell me?

Could you tell me?

Do you want to tell me?


¹¹ ¶§¹®¿¡ ÀÌ·¸°Ô ½É¼ú³­ °Å¾ß?

¹¹ ¶§¹®¿¡ ÀÌ·¸°Ô È­°¡ ³µ´Ï?

¡°What got you this grumpy?¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

Why are you mad?

What made you mad?

How come you are so mad?



±³À°Çϱâ Teaching Right from Wrong

- Ä£±¸ °ü°è Interacting with Peers

(Àå³­°¨) °°ÀÌ °¡Áö°í ³î¸é ¾î¶³±î?

¡°Wouldn¡¯t it be a good idea to share?¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

How about sharing?

Why don¡¯t you share it as you play?


±×·¸°Ô ¸»ÇÏ¸é ¾È µÅ

¡°You shouldn¡¯t talk like that.¡±


´øÁö¸é ¾È µÅ

´øÁö´Â °Ç ¾È µÅ

¡°Throwing is not a right thing to do.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

No throwing!

Throwing is not nice.

You should not throw things.


¶§¸®´Â °Ç ³ª»Û ÇൿÀ̾ß

¡°Hitting is not right.¡±


À߸øÇÏ¸é »ç°úÇÏ´Â °Å¾ß

¡°When you do something wrong, You have to say sorry.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

You have to say ¡°I¡¯m sorry¡± when you male a mistake.


- Ƽºñ º¼ ¶§ When Watching TV

(¾à¼ÓÇÑ ½Ã°£) ½Ã°£ ´Ù µÆ´Ü´Ù

¡°It¡¯s time¡±


ÀÌÁ¦ ²ôÀÚ

±×¸¸ ²°À¸¸é ÁÁ°Ú³×

¡°Let¡¯s turn it off now.¡±


- ¸øÇÏ°Ú´Ù°í ¶¼¾µ ¶§ When Throwing a Tantrum

³¡±îÁö ¸¶Àú ´Ù Çغ¼±î

¡°Do this all the way.¡±

¡°Why don¡¯t you do this all the way?¡±


ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ¸¸Å­¸¸ Çغ¸·Å

¡°You can do as much as you are able to do.¡±


ÇÑ ¹ø Çغ¸ÀÚ

¡°Let¡¯s have a tyr at it.¡±



- °è¼Ó ³î°í ½Í¾î ÇÒ ¶§ When a Child Wants to Continue to Play

¾à¼ÓÀº ÁöÄÑ¾ß ÇÑ´Ü´Ù

¡°Remember, a promise is meant to be kept.¡±


*´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô Ç¥ÇöÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¿ä!

You should keep the promise (you made).


- ¹«·ÊÇÏ°Ô ÇൿÇÒ ¶§ When a Child is Being Disrespectful

¿Ö ÀÌ·¸°Ô ¹ö¸©¾øÀÌ ÇൿÇÏ´Â °Å´Ï?

¡°Why are you being so disrespectful to mommy?¡±


¿¹ÀÇ ¹Ù¸£°Ô ÇൿÇÏÀÚ

¡°Behave yourself¡±


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